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When she stare's at your lips===[ Kiss her ]
When she pushes you or hit's you===[ Grab her and don’t let go ]
When she start's cursing at you===[ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]
When she's quiet===[ Ask her what’s wrong ]
When she ignore's you===[ Give her your attention ]
When she pulls away==[ Pull her back ]
When you see her at her worst===[ Tell her she's beautiful ]
When you see her start crying==[Just hold her and don’t say a word ]
When you see her walking==[ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]
When she's scared===[ Protect her ]
When she lay's her head on your shoulder===[ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]
When she steal's your favorite hat==[ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]
When she tease's you===[ Tease her back and make her laugh ]
When she doesn’t answer for a long time===[ reassure her that everything is okay ]
When she looks at you with doubt==[ Back yourself up with the TRUTH]
When she say's that she love's you==[ she really does more than you could understand ]
When she grab's at your hands===[ Hold her's and play with her fingers ]
When she bump's into you===[ bump into her back and make her laugh ]
When she tells you a secret===[ keep it safe and untold ]
When she looks at you in your eyes===[ don’t look away until she does ]
WHEN SHE MISSES YOU===[ SHES HURTING INSIDE]
When you break her heart===[ the pain NEVER really goes away ]
When she says its over===[ she STILL wants you to be hers ]
When she repost this bulletin===[ she wants you to read it ]
- Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not saying anything.
-DON'T let her have the last word.
- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go
- When she says she's ok don’t believe it, talk with her
- because 10 yrs later she'll remember you
- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
- Call her before you sleep and after you wake up
- Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
- Tease her and let her tease you back.
- Stay up all night with her when she's sick.
- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.
- Give her the world.
- Let her wear your clothes.
- When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.
- Let her know she's important.
- Kiss her in the pouring rain.
- When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;
"Who's ass am I kicking today baby?"
- Mood:
bouncy
Am I just too passionate about the things that I do in life? When I love I do it whole heartedly. I have to learn how to filter some of that passion because it allows me to put myself in situations that I get hurt. I hate that though. I hate that I feel the need to put up walls that someone needs to tear down to get to the core of me. I want to be able to allow someone in and trust them from the start with the inner beings of me. But the realist in me knows that walls are needed sometimes. I start out trusting someone and if they do something to lose that trust then I put up walls. Maybe it should be earned? I don’t know something to think about…
I have learned a lot of things about myself over the past few months. I know what I need and I have learned to communicate it no matter how much it hurts me or the other person. I know that I am a grown up. I am making grown up decisions and think things out. (it only took me 36 years) I can/will make healthy decisions for my life. I deserve that and nothing less!
I have been going through therapy and through that I have discovered that I have always been solid in who I am. I am a woman. I have strengths. I have weaknesses. I have integrity. I have passion. I have understanding. I am a lover of life. I am ever changing. I am a work in progress but still solid with whom I am at the core.
I have been thinking about Florida a lot. We just found out that my aunt has cancer and it has spread to far to do an operations. Which means my mom will be doing a lot of the taking care of her while going through radiation. Moving was a thought before because my mother is showing some signs of aging, but I always said when Dariel gets out of elementary school. Now, after spending the weekend down there and finding out about my aunt. I really think it will be sooner. My Dad was set to move to Georgia in a month, I am not sure what he will do now. I am his only child and he is not married. So he wanted to be closer to me. He was in and out of my life as a child. He has been great in my adulthood but my mom will always be my heart! He is going to have to make the best decision for himself as I will have to for myself.
- Location:work
- Mood:
contemplative
